9 Ways to Tap Into Your Intuition (And Why You’ll Want To)

You know the feeling. It’s a ‘knowing’ or at
the very least a gentle persuasion that something is off, or awesome, or needs
our attention. It’s subtle and doesn’t clamour for attention, which is why it’s
easily missed.
It’s intuition, and like most things that
speak with a quiet voice, if we listen the potential is life-changing.
For a long time, intuition was dismissed by
science as pseudo-science – sort of science but not really. Really!
Fortunately for all of us, science is now on board and researchers have found
the part of the brain where intuition does its brilliant best.
Intuition: We’ve all heard of it, but what is it?
Researchers at Leeds
University analysed a hefty pile of research papers
on intuition. They concluded that intuition is a very real psychological
process where the brain uses past experiences and cues from the self and the
environment to make a decision. The decision happens so quickly that it doesn’t
register on a conscious level.
Intuition exists in all of us, whether we
acknowledge it or not. The more we can learn about it, the more we can use it
to shape our lives for the better.
The human brain has two ‘operating systems’.
The first is quick, instinctual and effortless. This is where our intuition
lies. Intuition works by drawing on patterns collected by our experience and
when we have to make a quick decision about whether something is real, fake,
feels good, feels bad, right or wrong, we draw on these patterns. It all happens ‘offline’, outside our
conscious awareness.
The second operating system is slower to
respond. It’s more analytical and deliberate and it’s conscious.
The Evidence
Science has found real evidence to support the
existence of intuition. There are plenty of studies, but let’s talk about one
in particular – because it’s a good one. This particular study showed how the intuitive part of our
brain knows the right answer long before the more analytical part.
In this study, participants played a card game
which, unknown to the participants, was rigged from the beginning. Participants
had to choose from one of two decks of cards. One was rigged to provide big
wins, then big losses. The other – small gains but hardly any losses.
The participants reported that after 50 cards,
they had a hunch about which deck was safer. After 80 they were able to explain
the difference between the two decks. But here’s where it gets interesting –
after only 10 cards, the sweat glands on the palms of their hands opened
whenever they took from the dangerous deck. It was about then that
participants started to prefer the safer deck but there was no conscious
awareness that this was happening. So, before the analytical part of their brain
knew what was going on, the subjects’ intuition guided them towards a better
decision.
Sharpening Your Intuition
Every person on the planet has intuition but
not every person listens chooses to listen to it.
Intuition is the way the subconscious mind
communicates with the conscious mind. The information that informs ‘that
feeling’ is real. It’s like any other decision but the workings of it –
the collection, the storage, the putting together – happen outside of our
conscious mind.
So intuition is a brilliant thing. The sharper
it is, the better off you’ll be. Here’s how to feed yours so it’s flourishing
and ready to advise …
1.
Shhh. Listen.
It’s sounds simple enough – and it is. No
tricks here. Your intuition can’t talk to you if you’re not listening. When you
start to take notice, good things will happen. Just try it and see.
2.
Trust your gut feeling.
When a word like ‘gut’ teams up with a word
like ‘feeling’, you know there has to be a good reason. And there is. Research
suggests that emotion and intuition have a physical presence in our gut. The
gut is lined with a network of neurons and is often referred to as the
‘second brain.’ It’s known as the enteric nervous system (ENS) and it contains
about 100 million neurons, which is more than the spinal chord and peripheral
nervous system but less than the brain. This is why we get ‘sick’
about having to make a tough decision or knowing we’ve made a bad one.
3.
Feel.
You’ll know your intuition is there because
you’ll be able to feel it – if you let yourself. You’ll feel it in your belly
and it will goosebump your skin, send a shiver down your spine, race your
heart and quicken your breath. Sometimes it’s even more subtle and the only way
to describe it as a ‘knowing’. You’ll feel when something is right – it will
feel clear, nourishing and enriching. And you’ll feel when something is off –
for me it’s an ache or a flattening. Trusting your intuition might be
difficult at first if you’re not used to it, but give it time and trust it
bit by bit, if that feels better. It will be worth it.
4.
Be ready to let bad feelings go.
Negative emotions will cloud intuition, which
is why when you’re angry or depressed bad decisions can happen so easily. Research has backed this, finding that people
made better intuitive choices in a word task when they were in a positive mood
as compared to when they were in a negative mood.
5.
Be deliberate about the people you hang on to.
People who drain you will add to the noise and
make it more difficult to hear what your intuition wants you to hear. Chances
are that you already know how they are. If not, be still for a moment –
your intuition will be trying to tell you. Keep people who enrich and empower
you and walk away from those who drain you. Understandably, you can’t always
walk away from the troublesome ones and if that’s the case, empower yourself by
making it your decision to stay, rather than not theirs because they’ve
taken your choice. The difference is subtle in language but big in impact. One
lets the power stay with you, one gives it over to them.
6.
Pay attention to what’s going on around you.
The more information you are able to gather
from the environment, the more the intuitive, subconscious part of your brain
has to work with – and the more accurately it will inform your decisions.
7.
Connect with others.
There are so many things that inform our
opinions and decisions other than speech. Tone, volume of speech, body
language, gestures – they all contribute to the meaning we give to our
interactions with people. Sometimes, we have a feeling about people but can’t
quite put a finger on what it is. People might seem distant, distracted,
uninterested, and often these aren’t spoken but are ‘picked up’ through in
different ways. The ability to pick up on the thoughts, feelings and
intentions of others is referred to as ‘empathic accuracy’. The more time we
spend with people, the more we can finely tune or empathic accuracy. Being able
to pick on the signals of others will all add to intuition.
8.
Find time to be silent and still.
Having solitude turns down the clamor of the
world and allows you to tune in to your intuition. Our intuition is always
sending warnings and encouragement but often we are too busy to notice. Let
your mind wander and be open to what comes to you – feelings, thoughts or
words. One of the ways to do this is through mindfulness. By focusing your thoughts on your own
experience in the present moment, mindfulness gets rid of mental clutter and
makes way for you to connect with your intuition.
9.
Use your dream time well.
Dreams are the brain’s
way of processing information that’s left over from the day.
They are rich with valuable data – experiences, memories, learnings – so
they can work hard if we let them. Paying attention to dreams
can provide information that we may not have access due when we are awake.
Before you fall asleep, turn your thoughts to any unresolved issues or
problems. Think about possible options or resolutions as you’re falling asleep.
Close your eyes and let your brain do the rest.
But of course …
Intuition is powerful and can lead to amazing
insights, but that doesn’t mean you follow it blindly. It’s still important to
use common sense and a balance of rationality. You need a balance of both
– call into play both the intuitive and rational parts of the brain to position
yourself to reach the best decisions.
Source: heysigmund.com
Writer: Karen Young
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