Lessons from Ancient Philosophers That Can Be Applied to Everyday Life

Philosophy
as a way of life
Ancient philosophy is not an abstract theory, but
practical wisdom that resonates century after century. It’s precious knowledge
that becomes familiar when we are faced with challenges. Instead of panicking,
we can turn to Seneca, Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, Aristotle, Plato, Kant,
Socrates, Confucius, Nietzsche and more for answers. Philosophy can give us a
better worldview about life and living it.
These lessons
from ancient philosophers can make you happier, more resilient and a wiser,
better person.
Change what ‘s in your control—
ignore the rest
The uncomfortable truth about life is that you can’t
control every event, experience, or outcome. All that stress and worry about
what could possibly go wrong shouldn’t be your burden. The basic idea of
focusing on the actions and experiences within your control has been around for
a while.
Epictetus, a
Greek Stoic philosopher, classified things as being under our control or not
under our control.
His
classic Enchiridion (The Good Life Handbook) starts with
this basic idea of control; “Some things are within our power, while others are
not. Within our power are opinion, motivation, desire, aversion, and, in a
word, whatever is of our own doing; not within our power are our body, our
property, reputation, office, and, in a word, whatever is not of our own
doing.”
You can’t
control everything that happens to you, but you can control the way you
respond. And in your response is your greatest power.
Marcus
Aurelius, a Roman emperor from 161 to 180 and a Stoic philosopher once said,
“Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the
same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.”
Worrying about
the things outside your control accomplishes nothing except expending a lot of
energy that could be better spent elsewhere.
Don’t spend your life preparing
for life
Here is an
important truth about life and living it — it’s too short if you spend it
meaningfully and do what gives you a sense of accomplishment.
Life can also
become a mental and emotional burden if you spend all your time worrying about
the unpredictable future or the regrets of the past.
In the popular
book, On The Shortness Of Life (a 2,000-year-old masterpiece),
Seneca, a Roman Stoic philosopher said:
“It is not
that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it. Life is long
enough, and a sufficiently generous amount has been given to us for the highest
achievements if it were all well invested. But when it is wasted in heedless
luxury and spent on no good activity, we are forced at last by death’s final
constraint to realize that it has passed away before we knew it was passing. So
it is: we are not given a short life but we make it short, and we are not
ill-supplied but wasteful of it… Life is long if you know how to use it.”
The
philosopher argues that we shackle ourselves to our labours and our professions
while life and waste away the little time we have on earth.
Life can be
short or long depending upon how you decide to live it. If you spend all your
life preparing for life, you are not choosing to live now.
“The greatest
obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today.
The whole future lies in uncertainty: live immediately,” says Seneca. Don’t
lose yourself to your thoughts on what’s next or worry about what’s happening
elsewhere.
Invest in the
present, and the future will take care of itself.
Busyness without meaning is one
of the greatest distractions from living
The world is
getting louder. Distractions are inevitable.
Are you
intentional about how you spend your time? Do you postpone rich experiences
because of a busy schedule?
But busyness
is still a choice. Many of us confuse being “busy” with being effective, or
productive. It pays to reevaluate your schedule and do more of what makes you
come alive.
Carpe diem! or
‘seize the day,’ in everything you choose to do. The phrase was first uttered
by the Roman poet Horace over 2,000 years ago. The message of carpe diem
matters more than ever today.
Seneca argues,
“No one will bring back the years; no one will restore you to yourself. Life
will follow the path it began to take, and will neither reverse nor check its
course. It will cause no commotion to remind you of its swiftness, but glide on
quietly. It will not lengthen itself for a king’s command or a people’s favour.
As it started out on its first day, so it will run on, nowhere pausing or
turning aside. What will be the outcome? You have been preoccupied while life
hastens on. Meanwhile, death will arrive, and you have no choice in making
yourself available for that.”
All the little
tasks and decisions you have to make every day as you work gradually deplete
your psychological resources. Take an intentional break (even for 15 to 20
minutes) to appreciate life and those around you. Taking breaks is also
biologically restorative.
The impediment to action
advances action
Obstacles are beneficial
to our learning and growth if we leverage every opportunity life presents and
keep moving.
Marcus
Aurelius once said, “Our actions may be impeded, but there can be no impeding
of our intentions or dispositions. Because we can accommodate and adapt. The
mind adapts and converts to its own purposes the obstacle to our acting. The
impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.”
It’s profound
and so true. Every obstacle you face is the way to advance your next action. What
stands in the way becomes the way. Action is the solution and the cure to our
predicaments.
Despite the
setbacks in life, it’s in your best interest to turn obstacles into stepping
stones. Don’t choose to complain, or worse, to just give up.
What matters
to your progress is how we see them, how you react to them, and whether you
keep your composure and keep moving.
The results
you want can take twice as long. Don’t quit because you can’t figure out the
process. Embrace and enjoy the journey.
The product of thought is
superior to the product of intuition
Dare to
understand. Socrates once said, “The only true wisdom is in knowing you know
nothing.” He was a classical Greek philosopher credited as one of the founders
of Western philosophy.
Socrates
argued that we should not solely rely on those in “authority” to have sound
knowledge and insight. He demonstrated that people may have power and high
position and yet be deeply confused and irrational.
He says, “To
find yourself, think for yourself.”
He established
the importance of seeking evidence, closely examining reasoning and
assumptions, analyzing basic concepts, and tracing out implications not only of
what is said but of what is done as well. “Prefer knowledge to wealth, for the
one is transitory, the other perpetual,” he recommends.
He urged us to
probe the logic authorities used to reach them. He says the validity of an idea
or action is determined not by whether it is widely believed or widely reviled
but by whether it obeys the rules of logic.
One of the biggest triumphs in
life is conquering your ego
The most
common enemy of personal growth and success lies within: our ego. Ego is one of
the biggest obstacles to making better connections. It encompasses all of our
fears, and insecurities as well as what leads us to believe we’re better than
others.
It’s the sworn
enemy of our ability to learn and grow. As Epictetus put it, “It is impossible
for a person to begin to learn what he thinks he already knows.”It can blind us
to our faults and sow future problems. Ego makes recovery more difficult when
you fail. At every stage, ego holds us back.
“I count him
braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies, for the
hardest victory is over self,” says Aristotle, a Greek philosopher and polymath
during the Classical period in Ancient Greece.
Don’t be
deceived by your strengths. The ability to develop a healthy relationship with
your ego, and being able to limit its influence is an important skill you need
to become a better person.
Ego interrupts
reason and intuition. Don’t allow it to fill the space not filled with
knowledge. Once you tame your ego, you will be liberated to make the biggest
impact in life and career.
In our choices
and actions every day, we can apply the lessons of Philosophy to become wiser,
less agitated, more thoughtful, appreciate life more, and think more deeply
about your choices and how they enrich our lives.
Writer: Thomas
Oppong
Source:
medium.com
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